So i am in a bit of a situation at the moment. and i am not sure what to do about the situation, whether it needs to be addressed or whether i should just pray or whether i should just leave it, i really dont know what to do. this situation has been bugging me for a few days now and getting me really down, so much so, that i just cried in Pray the Bible this morning. now i shouldnt be letting it get me down this much, but i do. i just dont understand. so pretty much, there have been ppl making me feel bad and it gets me really down. but if i talk to the people involved, then there could be a whole other issue come up and alot of pain could be brought out. but if i dont address the issue, i am still feeling bad. i know this probably makes no sense to anyone ( except maybe becky and denise cuz i have talked to them about it), but i just needed to get my feelings and thoughts out there.
so what do i do? leave the situation and continue to feel bad or address the situation and possibly bring up about alot of pain and hurt that i dont wanna have to go through?? i just dont know whether i am ready for that.
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Sorry...the last comment was mine and went all wonky!
The pain and hurt seems to not have anything to do with you as a person or a war college student(directly)...
"Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind and with all your strength.'The second is this: 'Love your neighbor as yourself.'There is no commandment greater than these."
None greater. Where will your love take you?
Hey, Lisa. Just thought I'd pop in a say hi and leave you a message. It's pretty hard to comment with any real wisdom on this blog without really knowing what's up (not that I'm asking, of course). But my thoughts are these - if talking about the current situation will bring up more pain, and so avoiding talking will leave the pain untouched, doesn't it still mean that there's pain there hiding? I mean, isn't it there regardless of whether you attack it at this time or not? God's freedom and fullness of healing is for you, too, my friend. He will not let you simply walk through pain for no reason. He will walk you through it to the end, all you have to do it commit to making it there with Him.
Love you,
Bakes
hey lisa,
this is so random, coming from the fact i don't know know you, cept for my 2 cool convos on the phone with you, but hey maybe somehow we will meet n stuff...but anywhos.
imma comment anyways and pass on what peoples told me when i've been ina pridiciment similar...see now i vote just going to your friends/or the poeple who shud be your friends, and be up front on how your feeling and how they make you feel. reallness and transparency is important, im sure you have heard this a billion times from peeps being at the war college, but its a good idea...and yea its a ton of pain what peeps say and do now, but im sure its crappy dealing with it without them not knowing about it, ur post is like from last week so maybe your done and past this and your a happy family now? but i hope either way it turned/s out good and u have a good day! :)
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